It only takes one right person.
We help you find them.
Shortlist is a matchmaking agency that introduces 2 people for a commited relationship. Not an algorithm, but a person who searches for you.
Dating apps are built to keep you using them. Our goal is the opposite, to make ourselves unnecessary as fast as possible.
Our matchmakers figure out who you're truly compatible with and do the searching for you.
Fewer dates. Every single one worth your time.
How do we match
2 people?
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Compatibility over time
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Attachement style (Bowlby)
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Love languages (Chapman)
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Conflict methodology (Gottman)
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Personality model (OCEAN)
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Values theory (Schwartz)
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Attraction vs Compatibility
We build our careers consciously. We choose our studies, change jobs, and invest in ourselves. Why should the search for a life partner work any differently? Finding the right person is too important a life decision to be left to chance.
People ready to commit to each other are our specialty. We value privacy and conduct your search without the whole of Vilnius knowing about it.
Let us find
Absolute privacy
Unlike datting apps, your search remains strictly confidential. You retain full control over who sees your information and when.
Long-term partnership
We filter out the emotionally unavailable, the perpetual daters, and the incompatible before you ever sit across a table from them. Attraction without compatibility rarely holds. Skip the 3 month honeymoon relationships and start with a structurally verified person who is there for a long-run.
Save time
We take on the heavy lifting of sourcing and auditing, allowing you to focus on your career and life while we curate only the highest-probability introductions.
Why matchmaking?
Our Services
Paid membership
Free membership
Consulatation
For those ready to make the search process their priority. As a Member, you receive all of our services. Membership lasts for 3 months and prices start from 1,400 Eur depending on the complexity of the search. -A personal matchmaker searching for candidates for you from day one -Private consultations and preparation for each date -Carefully selected introductions every month -Guidance and feedback after every date -Continuous support throughout the 3 month membership period -If needed, the membership can be paused and extended later.
Our network consists of singles who are seriously looking for a partner but are not currently active members. Once you register, your profile enters our network. When we select candidates for active members, we can suggest you as well. You don't need to do anything. If your profile is a match, we will contact you. -By being in the network, you are considered for suitable meetings with our members -No fees, no commitments -The option to upgrade to a full membership at any time
Not sure if you're ready yet? Let's start with a conversation. We will help you understand what works, what holds you back, and what next step is worth taking. Private consultation costs 149 Eur. Understand the patterns you carry from previous relationships—what attracts you, what stops you, and what true compatibility looks like specifically for you. An outside perspective on your dating profile: what others see that you perhaps do not. Get answers to other important questions that arise when looking for a long-term relationship. We guarantee complete confidentiality.
OUR PROCESS WITH MEMBERS
1. Initial Consultation
We start with a private, in-depth conversation in person or remote to understand where you are, what you are looking for and what has not worked before. It is the foundation everything else is built on. After the consultation we identify if we are able to provide our services and when the process can be started.
Free · 60 min · No obligation
3. Curated introductions
Once your profile is complete, we introduce you to carefully selected matches each month. If both parts are eager to meet, we arrange your first date.Before each meeting you will know who you are meeting and why. Afterwards you will receive honest feedback so you always know exactly where you stand.
2. Behavioral profiling
Before any matching begins, we work with you to identify the patterns you carry from past relationships - what you are drawn to, what has held you back, and what genuine compatibility looks like for you specifically. This is what separates a considered match from a lucky guess.
4. Ongoing support
We stay involved throughout. If a connection develops, we are there to support it. If something is not working, we adjust. Your membership can also be paused at any point if your circumstances change.
PEOPLE TALK
"It sounded bizzare to hire a matchmaker when I had a dating app full of matches. It was even more bizzare to realize how little did I know what kind of partner actually suits me."
Ieva, E-commerce entrepreneur, Vilnius
“The privacy and care in the process made a huge difference. I was finally able to look for a partner without the entire city knowing it. It was clear why they wanted me to meet her.”
Matas, Investor/Developer, Kaunas
"It is such a different 1st date experience to know in advance that the person you are meeting is aligned with in values and intentions!"
Eglė, CMO, Vilnius